October 2017

Argentina adventure
REMOTE YEAR

Argentinian adventures continue

We arrived in Córdoba after a nine-hour bus ride through the Argentinian countryside. The highway from Buenos Aries reminded me of driving in Saskatchewan – long, straight, flat, see-for-miles.   I instantly liked the city. Even though it’s a big city (second largest in Argentina), it has a small city feel. It’s easy to walk around, the people are friendly, you feel safe.   We did a walking tour the next morning and discovered the city is quiet on Sundays, with most shops closed. But we explored churches whose beauty reminded me of Europe (Córdoba, Argentina is named after the Córdoba in Spain and you can see the European influence).   There were stray dogs everywhere and one cute black dog followed me the entire walking tour – sitting or lying at my feet when we stopped for photos and walking beside me down the streets. I took it as a good sign that I would love this city!   Last month I wanted to visit Iguazu Falls but the flights were expensive, and I was so sick that it didn’t happen. But my friend Jesus (from Mexico, not a religious reference!) found a website with cheap flights and a few days later we were on our way!   A wall of humidity hit us as we walked out of the airport and I felt my hair getting bigger and bigger. We were definitely in a rain forest and now it felt like vacation!   Our hotel was a former Jesuit Mission at the end of a dirt road and overlooked the river dividing Argentina and Brazil.   As it was Adrienne’s birthday, Jesus had secretly arranged champagne to be waiting in our room. It definitely makes it easier to plan a surprise when your travel mates don’t speak fluent Spanish!   We were excited to explore the next morning, but Adrienne had to work so Jesus and I headed out to the National Park on our own.   Jesus had heard about an extreme boat option and quickly signed up. After my white-water rafting experience in Bulgaria, I easily said “no, thanks” and we arranged to meet in a couple hours.   Armed with my map and a bottle of water, I headed off into the park to explore alone.   I quietly strolled along at my own pace, taking photos and enjoying the warm breeze. Every so often I heard a rustling in the leaves and my steps quickened!   I saw black monkeys (which I stayed away from after warnings about getting bit), coatis (which look a bit like raccoons except with long noses, and equally as mischievous), large iguanas (who moved much quicker than you’d think), and hundreds of butterflies.   As I walked along, I caught glimpses of the main waterfalls, smaller waterfalls and rivers. I saw a speedboat cruising along and heard people screaming.   Yup, I had made the right decision to skip the boat ride!   I met Jesus at our agreed spot and he was soaking wet with a huge grin. We were both happy and swapped stories about the great day we had as we headed back to the hotel for dinner.   We walked down to the restaurant and sat outside in lounge chairs to take in one of the most beautiful sunsets I have ever seen. The sky slowly turned pink, then red and orange, and finally a deep purple as the sun set lower. We sat there speechless, except for me saying “wow!”, “can you believe it?”, “stunning!” – yes, I’m my mother’s daughter!   The next day the three of us headed back to the National Park. There were several trails we hadn’t explored so I thought we’d start with those…but Adrienne had other ideas. She really wanted to do the boat trip.   I mistakenly thought I could send her off with Jesus but she gave me her best puppy dog look saying; “All I really want for my birthday is for you to come with me!”   Ackk! Not fair! How could I refuse a birthday wish?   I reluctantly agreed and we headed off towards the river. I had to admit the views were amazing as we walked down the trail. The waterfalls are three times as wide as Niagara Falls and surrounded by lush rain forest. Absolutely stunning.   Arriving at the boat launch, they handed us a waterproof bag for our belongings, strapped on a life jacket and helped us in the boat. I looked at Adrienne with what I’m sure was terror in my eyes but she was so excited and I tried to focus on that.   We sped off down the river, wind whipping through our hair and I thought – I can do this, I like the water, this will be great.   But as we turned towards the rushing waterfalls, my heart started racing. I was committed, there was no escape. I grabbed onto Adrienne, closed my eyes and remember hearing her shrieks of laughter as waves of water washed over us.   “Again, again!” she screamed, and the driver turned the boat around and took us through again. Cold water rushed down on us, taking my breath away and completely soaking us. “More, more!”   Ackk! Really?!   With the initial shock over, I relaxed a bit and opened my eyes for the third time through.   I’ve heard that when we’re frightened, our senses become heightened. The main thing I’ll always remember is the sound of Adrienne’s laughter. She had loved the adventure and isn’t that the best birthday gift a friend could give?   The rest of the boat ride was calmer as we zipped along the river to a second boat launch and climbed out – wet, tired but smiling.  I had done it and it wasn’t so bad!   We met up with Jesus to join a tour over to the Brazil side of the park. Sadly, we got stopped

uruguay
Life, REMOTE YEAR

Counting countries and letting go

Several people I’m traveling with this year have a goal of visiting 30 countries before they turn 30. I was a late bloomer and didn’t start travelling until I was 30 so that goal wasn’t an option for me. But it got me thinking – how many countries have I visited since I turned 30?   As I reviewed the list – from Australia to Cambodia to Bali to Norway – I realized I was sitting at 29 countries.  So close to 30!   Where should I go next?   Looking at the map, I was only an hour ferry ride away from Uruguay. That’s it – Uruguay would be my 30th country!   It was Thursday and no one was free to join me so I hopped in an Uber and headed down to the ferry terminal alone.   What should have been a ten minute drive turned into 45 minutes as we hit rush hour traffic. I was getting nervous that I’d miss my ferry.   As I checked the time again, I realized I was worrying about nothing. If I missed the ferry, then it wasn’t meant to be!   I believe things happen for a reason and in that moment, I decided to focus on how I wanted my day to go instead of being anxious about things beyond my control.   I closed my eyes, took a couple deep breaths and thought about how I wanted to feel.   I wanted a relaxing day, to stroll along at a leisurely pace, to stop and enjoy anything that caught my attention, to meet kind and trust-worthy people, to be safe and healthy, and to appreciate the beauty of a new country.   With the shift in my perspective, we soon arrived at the ferry terminal and I walked inside to get my ticket.   There was no one in line.   As I went upstairs to go through customs, again, there was no one in line.   I smiled at how quickly my surroundings had changed from chaos to peace.   As I left the customs area, I saw two women waiting for their passports, chatting about their plans for Uruguay. They saw me and smiled – “you speak English, right?” “Yes,” I replied. We had a brief conversation and I wished them a pleasant trip.   I sat on the ferry, looking over the water and memories of so many other solo trips flooded my mind. I decided to stretch my legs, walked around the corner and heard a friendly “hello again!” It was the mother-daughter duo I had seen in the customs area!   They invited me to sit with them so I sat down and we swapped travel stories.   Karen and Elizabeth were from Washington, DC and had lived and traveled all over the world, spending time in Africa, Australia, France and Germany to name a few. I instantly liked them – their casual nature, their positive attitude and the fun dynamic between moms and daughters, especially when travelling.   Our conversation continued as we got off the ferry and it went unsaid that we would explore the city together.   We grabbed maps from the tourist office and headed out on foot. We laughed and joked and stopped for photos, admiring the ocean views, the tall palm trees and the brightly colored houses.   We had so much fun!   Karen wanted to peek in every shop, try things on and look for gifts. Elizabeth encouraged her mother to move along and I laughed as I say the same things to my mom.   We posed for photos, laughing at how I was going to show up in the family photos when they looked back years from now.   Deciding we should stop for lunch, we found a cute café, sat outside and ordered a bottle of wine – why not?!   I learned about their careers, their family life, their beloved dog who had just passed, their future plans. The time flew by and I felt like we’d been lifelong friends.   We walked the cobblestone streets, climbed the lighthouse, ate ice cream, strolled through the church and museum, took numerous photos, bought souvenirs and thoroughly enjoyed the quiet town of Colonia.   Walking back to the ferry docks, I smiled at the amazing day we had. It was what I had envisioned…and more!   We exchanged contact information, said goodbye and had a group hug. It had been a wonderful day and I believe they enjoyed my company as much as I had enjoyed theirs.   Not only did I reach 30 countries visited since I turned 30, but I made two amazing friends and I know our paths will cross again one day.   That’s the beauty of traveling, of setting your intentions, of being open to how the day unfolds – sometimes you get even more than you asked for!     P.S. This also happens to be my 30th blog post – how cool is that?! Thanks for your support! xo                            

REMOTE YEAR

Galloping to the end in Buenos Aires

With one week left in Buenos Aires, and finally over my cold, I decided to do all the touristy things I could and maybe find something I liked about the city so we could part on good terms.   I love to read and strolling through a used bookstore on a Sunday afternoon is one of my favourite things to do. When I heard about an old theatre that had been turned into a bookstore, I knew it was the place to start.   El Ateneo Grand Splendid is almost 100 years old and many of the original theatre details remain including ornate carvings, muraled ceiling, and heavy, red curtains. Even the box seats have been turned into reading nooks and the stage is a café.   It’s an adorable space than encourages you to linger, admiring both the books and the ambiance. No wonder it’s been named one of the most beautiful bookstores in the world.   My spirits lifted, despite the heavy rainfall and soaking wet shoes, we pushed on for more experiences to love.   Argentina is known for it’s Malbec and I have a soft spot for cheese so a wine tasting and cheese pairing event sounded perfect.   We spent the evening sipping various types of local wine, trying our best to describe the scents and flavours we were experiencing. We then moved on to cheeses, nibbling and savouring the unique textures.   Finally, we had to determine which cheese went best with which wine, but we didn’t have any left! Our host laughed and generously brought more bottles and cheese boards.   We walked home, arm and arm, smiling at our silliness and recharged after an evening spent with friends.   Next, I decided to better understand the history of Argentina. I had to admit most of my knowledge was likely from the movie Evita (yes, based on a true story but how much was truth and how much was movie-making?)   I went to a tiny café called Perón Perón, a restaurant dedicated to former president General Juan Domingo Perón and his wife Eva. Surrounded by memorabilia, I listened to a passionate Peronist tell his story of the political party, the people, the successes and challenges overcome, and the current state of the country. Although I’m not a political person, I appreciated hearing the history and details first-hand.   The only thing left on my list was to see a polo game. Not only do I love horses, but I heard the polo players were easy on the eyes too!   My friend Adrienne had an even better suggestion – let’s go play polo!   We booked a full day experience which included being picked up at our apartment by Sebastian, the veterinarian who also played polo. On the hour-long drive, he answered all our questions about Argentina, gauchos, breeding polo ponies and even why drivers constantly honk their horns (to which he shrugged – “welcome to Argentina!”)   We turned off the highway and down a long dirt road. My body relaxed as I gazed at the rolling fields, the quiet country roads, the pastures with horses. We pulled into a driveway, greeted by three adorable dogs.   I had found my home.   Sebastian led us over to the horses, where we first watched a friendly game of polo between professional players. The game is fast, with horses galloping from one end to the other, quickly turning direction in pursuit of the ball.   The riders hold two sets of reins in their left hand, the mallet in their right and only use their legs to stay on the horses at break-neck speed. I gulped as I realized we were going to be attempting this soon.   In between each chukka (period), we learned about the rules of polo and practiced swinging the mallet and hitting balls on the grass.   There’s a definite art and skill required. Holding the mallet correctly, swinging with precision and strength, avoiding hitting yourself or others was tricky enough on the ground – how were we going to manage it on horseback?!   The game finished and we met the players (yay!), took pictures with the horses (and players), and learned about the equipment before heading back to the main house for lunch.   The family welcomed us with a full asado – several cuts of grilled beef, each serving more flavourful and tender than the last. Plus salads, grilled vegetables, fresh baked bread and unlimited local wine. The Argentinians are gracious and generous hosts.   Other people had joined our polo adventure and I was pleased to meet two Canadians!   Originally from Thunder Bay, Ontario, Rick and Jake were childhood friends travelling through Argentina. (Rick had been working on a project in Bolivia and Jake joined him for vacation.)   It’s hard to describe the small joy it brings to find your countrymen when you’ve been travelling for so long.   Our stomachs full and our courage bolstered, we grabbed our helmets and mallets, put on team jerseys and leg protectors and headed out to try our own game of polo.   There was nervous laughter as we mounted, trying to balance the mallet and hang on at the same time – and the horses weren’t even moving yet!   We started slowly…even slower than a walk, as our horses decided it was a great time to visit friends and stand around in the sunshine.   With a lot of coaxing, and some prodding from the players, the horses started moving and we began to test our abilities to steer our horse, follow the ball, remember the rules and swing without falling off. Needless to say, it was a gong show!   We completely forgot the rule of following the line of ball and had our horses jammed up like a group of kindergarten students playing soccer – everyone chasing after the ball in a big group!   We had no idea

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